The Balance in Life

#Productivity #WellBeing

In today’s world, where hyperconnectivity and the 24/7 hustle culture have become the norm, many professionals find themselves trapped in a seemingly endless cycle of productivity. We open our computers as soon as we wake up and close them just before bed, always with the feeling that we could—or should—be doing more.

The Trap of Constant Productivity

For a long time, my daily routine was designed around a simple premise: maximize every minute to be “productive.” I prioritized time in front of the computer over almost any other activity. My metric for success was based on hours spent working, not necessarily on the results achieved.

This approach seemed logical: more time working must equal greater productivity, right? The reality turned out to be much more complex.

Over time, I realized I was confusing activity with productivity. Just because I was spending more time in front of the computer didn’t mean I was generating more value. In fact, many times those long days resulted in diminishing returns: tasks that should take an hour with a fresh mind would stretch to five hours with an exhausted mind.

The Turning Point

I began to notice that I had sacrificed fundamental elements like physical exercise and personal time for the sake of that misunderstood “productivity.” The irony is that this approach ended up undermining precisely what I was trying to maximize: my ability to generate value and quality results.

As a development professional, my most valuable tool is not my computer or the time I spend in front of it—it’s my mind. And a mind needs rest, variety, and care to function optimally.

Rebuilding a Healthy Relationship with Productivity

The process of change was not immediate or easy, but it began with some concrete steps:

  1. Redefining productivity: I shifted from measuring hours worked to valuing results and value generated.

  2. Incorporating structure: Implementing a well-planned calendar helped me define both focused work times and deliberate spaces for rest.

  3. Prioritizing physical well-being: As the saying goes, “exercise is life.” Reincorporating regular physical activity not only improved my health but also my mental clarity and ability to concentrate.

  4. Seeking professional support: Psychological help was fundamental to addressing ingrained thought patterns and developing a healthier relationship with work and rest.

Lessons from “The Four Agreements” and “Atomic Habits”

Two books have been particularly valuable on this journey:

In Dr. Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements,” the fourth agreement—“Always do your best”—takes on special meaning in this context. It’s not about squeezing every drop of energy until exhaustion, but about giving your best in every circumstance, recognizing that this “best” varies depending on the moment and our state.

On the other hand, James Clear’s “Atomic Habits” taught me that small, consistent changes are more powerful than radical transformations. Incorporating small moments of intentional rest and structuring my day with well-designed habits has had a deeper impact than any attempt at a drastic “revolution” in my routine.

The Value of Intentional Rest

One of the most significant changes has been allowing myself moments of genuine rest without guilt. Those 15 minutes in the hammock in the mid-afternoon or that walk in the park without checking emails are not “lost time”—they are investments in my well-being and, paradoxically, in my future productivity.

Intentional rest—different from collapsing from exhaustion—is an essential part of the productive cycle, not its antithesis.

A More Balanced and Sustainable Approach

Today, I understand that true professional success is not built by burning the midnight oil for endless weeks. It is built through a sustainable approach that integrates quality work with adequate recovery.

Genuine productivity is not about doing more, but about generating more value in the time spent. And for that, a professional needs to be in their best mental and physical state, something impossible without proper balance.

Final Reflection

My journey towards a healthier relationship with productivity continues to be a work in progress. There are good days and less good days. However, the fundamental difference is that I now understand that allowing myself to rest is not a sign of weakness or lack of commitment—it is a deliberate strategy to optimize my long-term performance.

As professionals in an increasingly demanding digital world, let’s remember that true productivity is not measured in hours in front of a screen, but in the value we generate. And to generate our maximum value, we need to take care of our most valuable resource: ourselves.